Can SFBT & Narrative Therapy Transform Pastoral Counseling?
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Can SFBT & Narrative Therapy Transform Pastoral Counseling?
Pastoral counseling has always been a vital aspect of ministry, offering spiritual guidance, emotional support, and compassionate presence to those navigating life’s challenges. Yet, as the world grows more complex — shaped by cultural shifts, crises like the COVID-19 pandemic, and rapid technological change — the role of the pastoral caregiver must also evolve. This course, Pastoral Counseling: A Short-Term Approach with Dr. William Roozeboom at Fuller Theological Seminary, provided me with both a deeper theological framework and practical tools to meet these evolving needs with wisdom, creativity, and grace.
What follows is a personal reflection on how this course has transformed my pastoral counseling practice, reshaped my ministry philosophy, and ignited new questions about the future of pastoral care. Along the way, I will highlight the books, models, and concepts that left a lasting impact on my vocation, equipping me to become a more hope-focused, culturally sensitive, and future-oriented pastoral caregiver.
1. How I’ve Changed as a Pastoral Caregiver
This course has expanded not only my understanding but my very identity as a pastoral caregiver. Through exposure to diverse perspectives — including Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT), narrative therapy, and feminist pastoral care — my approach has become more agile, creative, and culturally sensitive. I’ve learned that effective pastoral counseling isn’t about offering all the answers but about equipping people to discover their own God-given strength and path forward.
One book that profoundly impacted me was Solution-Focused Pastoral Counseling: An Effective Short-Term Approach to Getting People Back on Track by Charles A. Kollar. This work reshaped my understanding of counseling as not merely problem-centered, but future-oriented and hope-driven. Kollar’s emphasis on seeking exceptions, amplifying strengths, and setting achievable goals resonated deeply with me, offering practical tools and a faith-based framework to deliver brief yet transformational interventions.
Key Elements I Now Prioritize:
- Future Orientation: Helping individuals envision where God is leading them.
- Goal Setting: Collaboratively defining what success looks like.
- Exception Seeking: Identifying moments when problems had less power.
- Amplifying Strengths: Encouraging resilience already within them.
- Brief, Hope-Focused Interventions: Making every conversation count.
2. How My Practice Has Shifted
Since adopting SFBT principles, my pastoral counseling sessions have taken on a more future-focused, solution-oriented tone. I’ve learned to ask better questions — ones that help people imagine preferred outcomes and discover small, achievable steps forward. At the same time, integrating narrative therapy has reminded me of the sacredness of people’s stories, and how reframing those stories can lead to healing and renewed purpose.
Books like Interviewing for Solutions by Peter De Jong and Insoo Kim Berg, and More Than Miracles by Steve de Shazer and Yvonne Dolan, have deepened my appreciation for the subtle art of therapeutic conversation. These works encouraged me to listen for moments of breakthrough — however small — and build on them.
3. How My Ministry Has Grown Overall
This course also broadened my pastoral imagination. I now approach ministry with greater inclusivity and cultural humility, recognizing that spiritual care must respond to people’s varied experiences and backgrounds. Introducing Feminist Pastoral Care and Counseling by Nancy Gorsuch challenged me to consider voices often marginalized in ministry and highlighted the importance of culturally competent care.
In the wake of COVID-19, Justice Matters: Spiritual Care and Pastoral Theological Imaginations in Times of the COVID-19 Pandemic, edited by Kyunsig Samuel Lee and Danjuma G. Gibson, gave me language and vision for navigating crisis moments in ministry. It reminded me that spiritual care is as much about justice and presence as it is about theology. Ministry in this season has become more holistic, responsive, and adaptable.
4. My Greatest Strengths as a Pastoral Caregiver
I believe my primary strength lies in cultivating safe, empathetic spaces where individuals feel genuinely seen and heard. I’ve long valued active listening, but this course helped me recognize the power of intentional, focused conversations centered on hope and possibility.
John Patton’s Pastoral Care: An Essential Guide affirmed these instincts, encouraging me to see pastoral care as both art and discipline — rooted in relationship, active presence, and context-sensitive support. Integrating SFBT and narrative therapy has enhanced my ability to tailor interventions, whether someone is navigating crisis, grief, or personal growth.
5. Where I Still Need to Grow
No matter how seasoned a caregiver becomes, growth areas remain. For me, cultural competency continues to be an area I want to strengthen. While this course expanded my awareness, I recognize the necessity of ongoing learning, especially as I serve an increasingly diverse community.
Additionally, navigating complex grief remains a delicate, evolving skill. Grief: Contemporary Theory and the Practice of Ministry by Melissa Kelley provided valuable frameworks for understanding loss’s complexities. It helped me embrace grief’s layered realities and equipped me to offer more nuanced, empathetic care during seasons of profound sorrow.
6. Lingering Questions About Pastoral Counseling
I remain deeply curious about how pastoral counseling will evolve alongside societal shifts, particularly in digital spaces. COVID-19 accelerated the move toward virtual care, raising important questions about relational depth, presence, and spiritual formation in online contexts.
Books like Technotherapy: Mind, Bodies, and Society in the Internet Age and Online Counselling and Guidance Skills by Jane Evans offered practical and theoretical insights into this landscape. They sparked reflection on how technology intersects with mental health, human connection, and sacred care.
I wonder:
- How can virtual pastoral counseling maintain its incarnational nature?
- What ethical and relational challenges will this medium present in years to come?
- How might technology be leveraged not just to counsel but to spiritually form and disciple people remotely?
These are questions I carry with me, knowing that faithful ministry demands not just tradition but imagination.
Recommended Reading
Solution-Focused Pastoral Counseling and SFBT
- Charles A. Kollar, Solution-Focused Pastoral Counseling: An Effective Short-Term Approach to Getting People Back on Track
- Bill O’Connell & Stephen Palmer, The Handbook of Solution-Focused Therapy
- Thorana S. Nelson & Frank N. Thomas (Eds.), Handbook of Solution-Focused Brief Therapy: Clinical Applications
- Jeffrey Guterman, Solution-Focused Practice: Effective Communication to Facilitate Change
- Scott D. Miller, Mark A. Hubble & Barry L. Duncan, Handbook of Solution-Focused Brief Therapy
- Fredrike Bannink, 1001 Solution-Focused Questions: Handbook for Solution-Focused Interviewing
- Peter De Jong & Insoo Kim Berg, Interviewing for Solutions
- Steve de Shazer & Yvonne Dolan, More Than Miracles: The State of the Art of Solution-Focused Brief Therapy
- Johnny Kim (Ed.), Solution-Focused Brief Therapy: A Multicultural Approach
Narrative Therapy
- Michael White & David Epston, Narrative Therapy: The Social Construction of Preferred Realities
- Gerald Monk, John Winslade, Kathie Crocket, & David Epston (Eds.), Narrative Therapy in Practice: The Archaeology of Hope
Feminist and Womanist Pastoral Care
- Nancy Gorsuch, Introducing Feminist Pastoral Care and Counseling
- Bonnie J. Miller-McLemore & Brita Gill-Austern (Eds.), Feminist and Womanist Pastoral Theology
- Jeanne Stevenson-Moessner & Teresa Snorton (Eds.), Women Out of Order: Risking Change and Creating Care in a Multicultural World
Grief and Pastoral Ministry
- Melissa Kelley, Grief: Contemporary Theory and the Practice of Ministry
- John Patton, Pastoral Care: An Essential Guide
Pastoral Care in Crisis & Contemporary Issues
- Kyunsig Samuel Lee & Danjuma G. Gibson (Eds.), Justice Matters: Spiritual Care and Pastoral Theological Imaginations in Times of the COVID-19 Pandemic
Technology, Online Counseling, and Virtual Care
- Michael Arntfield & Marcel Danesi, Technotherapy: Mind, Bodies, and Society in the Internet Age
- Jane Evans, Online Counselling and Guidance Skills: A Practical Resource for Trainees and Practitioners
- Ray Poynter & Navin Williams, The Handbook of Online and Social Media Research: Tools and Techniques for Market Researchers
- Alessandra Lemma & Luigi Caparrotta (Eds.), The Digital Age on the Couch: Psychoanalytic Practice and New Media
1) How are you different as a pastoral caregiver as a result of this course?
This course has expanded my toolkit as a pastoral caregiver. The exposure to various perspectives, including Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT), narrative therapy, and feminist pastoral care, has broadened my understanding of effective counseling approaches. I've gained a deeper appreciation for the importance of creativity, cultural sensitivity, and brief intervention strategies in pastoral care. Books that Impacted me: "Solution-Focused Pastoral Counseling: An Effective Short-Term Approach to Getting People Back on Track" "Engaging with 'Solution-Focused Pastoral Counseling' by Charles A. Kollar, I learned that the power of pastoral care lies not just in addressing problems but in guiding individuals towards their envisioned futures. The emphasis on future orientation and goal setting resonated with me, reshaping how I approach spiritual counseling. The book became a mentor, teaching me to seek exceptions, amplify strengths, and deliver brief, impactful interventions—all within the framework of positive, faith-based solutions. It's not just knowledge; it's a transformative guide, enriching my pastoral practice with hope and resilience. SFBT is an approach that focuses on solutions rather than problems, emphasizing a person's strengths and resources to create positive change. Key elements of Solution-Focused Pastoral Counseling, as discussed in the book- Future Orientation
- Goal Setting
- Exception Seeking
- Amplifying Strengths
- Brief and Solution-Focused Interventions
2) How has your practice shifted as a result of this course?
The incorporation of SFBT principles has brought a more solution-oriented and future-focused dimension to my pastoral counseling practice. I've become more intentional about exploring clients preferred futures and helping them identify practical steps toward positive change. Additionally, a narrative therapy lens has enriched my understanding of the power of storytelling in the therapeutic process.- Books Impacted Me:
- "Interviewing for Solutions" by Peter De Jong and Insoo Kim Berg.
- "More Than Miracles: The State of the Art of Solution-Focused Brief Therapy" by Steve de Shazer and Yvonne Dolan.
- "Solution-Focused Brief Therapy: A Multicultural Approach" edited by Johnny Kim.
3) How has your ministry overall shifted?
My ministry has become more inclusive and responsive to the diverse needs of individuals. The emphasis on cultural sensitivity, as highlighted in books such as "Introducing Feminist Pastoral Care and Counseling," has deepened my commitment to understanding and addressing the unique experiences of those I serve. This course has fostered a more holistic and adaptable approach to pastoral care within the larger ministry context. Books Impacted Me:- "Introducing Feminist Pastoral Care and Counseling" by Nancy Gorsuch. I learned to embrace a more inclusive and culturally sensitive approach in my ministry. The book deepened my understanding of feminist perspectives, encouraging me to address the unique experiences of individuals with greater empathy and awareness.
- "Justice Matters: Spiritual Care and Pastoral Theological Imaginations in Times of the Covid-19 Pandemic" edited by Kyunsig Samuel Lee and Danjuma G. Gibson. This book broadened my theological imaginations and equipped me to navigate the challenges posed by the pandemic. It emphasized the transformative role of spiritual care during crises, influencing my ministry to become more adaptable and responsive to the evolving needs of the community.
4) What are your greatest strengths as a pastoral caregiver?
My strengths lie in creating a safe and empathetic space for individuals to share their stories. I value active listening and the ability to establish rapport, foundational elements in effective pastoral care. The integration of various therapeutic approaches, including SFBT and narrative therapy, has enhanced my ability to tailor interventions to individual needs.- Book: "Pastoral Care: An Essential Guide" by John Patton. I honed my strengths in creating a safe and empathetic space. The book emphasized the importance of active listening and rapport-building in effective pastoral care, aligning with my approach. Patton's insights broadened my perspective on integrating diverse therapeutic approaches, enhancing my ability to tailor interventions and provide holistic support to individuals on their spiritual journey."
5) What are your areas of growth or vulnerability in terms of the practice of pastoral counseling?
I recognize the ongoing need for growth in adapting to diverse cultural contexts. While the course has broadened my awareness, I acknowledge the importance of continued learning to ensure cultural competence. Additionally, there's room for improvement in navigating complex issues such as grief, as highlighted in "Grief: Contemporary Theory and the Practice of Ministry.- Book: "Grief: Contemporary Theory and the Practice of Ministry" by Melissa Kelley. I deepened my understanding of grief dynamics and its intersection with pastoral care. The book provided nuanced insights into contemporary theories, enriching my ability to navigate and offer support to individuals experiencing grief within the context of ministry. It became a guiding light in comprehending the complexities of grief and honing my skills in providing empathetic pastoral care.
6) What lingering questions do you have about pastoral counseling?
I am curious about the evolving landscape of pastoral counseling, especially in the context of contemporary challenges such as the COVID-19 pandemic, as discussed in "Justice Matters: Spiritual Care and Pastoral Theological Imaginations in Times of the Covid-19 Pandemic." I am interested in exploring innovative approaches to virtual pastoral counseling and understanding how technology impacts the therapeutic relationship. Books- "Justice Matters: Spiritual Care and Pastoral Theological Imaginations in Times of the Covid-19 Pandemic"edited by Kyunsig Samuel Lee and Danjuma G. Gibson. I gained profound insights into the intersection of spiritual care and pastoral theology during the COVID-19 pandemic. The book expanded my understanding of the evolving challenges and the innovative approaches within the landscape of pastoral care. It sparked reflections on justice, spirituality, and the transformative role pastoral caregivers can play in times of crisis.
- "Technotherapy: Mind, Bodies, and Society in the Internet Age" by Michael Arntfield and Marcel Danesi:
- I gained a nuanced understanding of how technology intersects with mental health. The book illuminated the challenges and opportunities in virtual therapeutic interventions, prompting me to reflect on the evolving landscape of counseling in the digital age. It broadened my awareness of the intricate relationship between technology, mental health, and the potential shifts in counseling practices.
- I gained practical insights into the realm of online counseling. The book equipped me with essential skills and considerations for fostering effective virtual therapeutic relationships. Navigating its pages, I discovered a valuable resource that not only demystifies the intricacies of online counseling but also enhances my ability to connect meaningfully with those seeking pastoral care in the digital space.
- This book broadened my understanding of online research methods. Although not counseling-focused, the insights provided are applicable to virtual pastoral counseling. I learned to leverage technology to comprehend human behavior, enriching my approach to offering spiritual guidance in the digital realm.
- This book explores the intersection of psychoanalytic practices and technology. Although not directly focused on pastoral care, it can provide insights into the broader implications of technology in therapeutic contexts.
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